Anxiety- What is it, and what can we do about it?

Anxiety
Assisting clients in overcoming their anxiety has become my profession as a therapist. I have dedicated a significant amount of time to helping individuals whilst also studying the reasons behind our anxiety and, more importantly, what actions we can take to address it.
Negative thought patterns contribute to anxiety, which I refer to as being stored in a "stress bucket." When we accumulate excessive anxiety in this "stress bucket," it eventually overflows, leading to anxiety, panic attacks, depression, and low moods.
The "stress bucket" serves as a metaphor utilised by therapists practising Solution Focused Hypnotherapy (SFH) to illustrate how stress, anxiety, and negative emotions accumulate in our lives—and how we can effectively manage them.
The Concept of the Stress Bucket:
Envision your mind as a bucket that gathers all your daily stresses, worries, and negative experiences. Each stressful thought, difficult situation, or unresolved issue contributes to the water level in your bucket. A full or overflowing bucket signifies when stress becomes unmanageable, often resulting in anxiety, sleep disturbances, and other mental health challenges.
How SFH Assists in Managing the Stress Bucket:
Emptying the Bucket Through Trance:
SFH employs hypnosis to lead you into a profoundly relaxed state, enabling your brain to process and "empty" some of the stress accumulated in your bucket. This state of relaxation aids in reducing anxiety, fostering calmness, and creating space for positive thought patterns.
Focusing on Solutions, Not Problems:
By directing attention towards future aspirations and the positive aspects of your life, SFH minimises the mental "water" being added to your bucket. This approach helps prevent the bucket from overflowing.
Empowering You to Maintain Control:
SFH motivates you to discover practical strategies for keeping your stress levels in check, such as establishing healthy routines, practising mindfulness, and leveraging your strengths. This proactive strategy helps avert unnecessary stress accumulation.
Understanding the Role of Sleep in Emptying the Bucket:
The metaphor ties closely to the brain’s natural processes during sleep, particularly during REM (Rapid Eye Movement). REM sleep allows your mind to process daily stresses, reducing the “water” in your bucket. SFH promotes better sleep by helping you relax and reframe unhelpful thoughts.
Why Is the Stress Bucket Useful?
I love this metaphor because it offers a simple, relatable way to understand how stress affects your mental health and how SFH can help you manage it. By visualising your stress levels as a bucket, you can take proactive steps to reduce the load and regain control over your wellbeing. This will be explained to you, as well as how the mind works, during the Initial consultation when you book in to see me. 07380253063
The "stress bucket" A visual representation of how anxiety accumulates. Professor Alison Brabban and Dr. Douglas Turkington are credited with developing and introducing the "stress bucket" model in 2002. This illustrated version is Copied with online permission from Dr. Juliet Young.